So I was reading this article online and based on what it said I came to the conclution that our subconcious is basicly what controls how people percieve us and how we preceive them (or what makes you you). The subconcious mind holds all of our experiences and controls how we react to things, the way that you react to things and your experiences are what, I beleive, makes you you. Preceiving has a big part in how we act for example when your speaking to some one and you use a certain word that word could be a "trigger" to a specific experience, and everybody has different experiences linked to different "triggers" and different ways of percieving those triggers. So even if, for example, you say something and you mean it as a compliment that person may take it as an insult. So my studies on the subconscious mind are turning out to be useful in real life situations, I hope they are for you too!